An interesting piece and perspective, Adina! I absolutely loved your expression, *"workplaces love cool cucumbers." They also have a fondness for "yes men"*—through and through. Stress is a part of life, and navigating it is always a work-in-progress for everyone. What’s truly important, I think, is feeling "safe" to express one’s point of view.
I seem to remember a story about Japanese workspaces (not exactly ideal, as they push their staff to extremes), but apparently, they had machines where employees could punch and kick to vent their frustrations when things were going bananas. I’d love that! Or imagine a darts board where everyone brings their own "enemy" picture, sticks it onto the board, and can safely express their emotions in a very controlled, supportive—he he he—environment.
It’s also important to mention that there are huge cultural differences in the work environment—not only company culture but also the culture of the country we’re moving to, or living in.
Hehe, how I could have used a punching bag at times! I love the honesty of the Japanese! <3
Yes, you're 100% right on the cultural factor, I left it out so I don't go on a long tangent but it's definitely part of the conversation. I've seen people burst in tears in Latin environments (reaction: tissues, privacy, and a hug) and in Anglo-Saxon cultures ('they are under *a lot* of stress, do they have too much on their shoulders?") and it looked very different.
Japanese culture is one of my passions, culminating in painting geishas and maikos. :) Hmm, tell me more about the punching bag! Oh Lord! I’m planning to explore the cultural factor in work environments and society at large, as I find it fascinating. Latin cultures are absolutely different. I live in England nowadays, and hypocrisy is monumental. I don’t know what happened to them, but I suspect the last 30 years of brainwashing have shaped the majority into what they are now.
I’m the last person to look for negative things, and I can only speak from my own experience, but something’s just not quite right. As for the shoulder to cry on and the tissues... even in my last job, who do you think was soothing the others, despite my horrid experience? Me. When people feel safe, the tears start pouring. Big hug coming your way!
This was great! Thank you!
Thanks, Michelle! I appreciate you 🫶🏻
An interesting piece and perspective, Adina! I absolutely loved your expression, *"workplaces love cool cucumbers." They also have a fondness for "yes men"*—through and through. Stress is a part of life, and navigating it is always a work-in-progress for everyone. What’s truly important, I think, is feeling "safe" to express one’s point of view.
I seem to remember a story about Japanese workspaces (not exactly ideal, as they push their staff to extremes), but apparently, they had machines where employees could punch and kick to vent their frustrations when things were going bananas. I’d love that! Or imagine a darts board where everyone brings their own "enemy" picture, sticks it onto the board, and can safely express their emotions in a very controlled, supportive—he he he—environment.
It’s also important to mention that there are huge cultural differences in the work environment—not only company culture but also the culture of the country we’re moving to, or living in.
Hehe, how I could have used a punching bag at times! I love the honesty of the Japanese! <3
Yes, you're 100% right on the cultural factor, I left it out so I don't go on a long tangent but it's definitely part of the conversation. I've seen people burst in tears in Latin environments (reaction: tissues, privacy, and a hug) and in Anglo-Saxon cultures ('they are under *a lot* of stress, do they have too much on their shoulders?") and it looked very different.
Sending hugs and good vibes!!
Japanese culture is one of my passions, culminating in painting geishas and maikos. :) Hmm, tell me more about the punching bag! Oh Lord! I’m planning to explore the cultural factor in work environments and society at large, as I find it fascinating. Latin cultures are absolutely different. I live in England nowadays, and hypocrisy is monumental. I don’t know what happened to them, but I suspect the last 30 years of brainwashing have shaped the majority into what they are now.
I’m the last person to look for negative things, and I can only speak from my own experience, but something’s just not quite right. As for the shoulder to cry on and the tissues... even in my last job, who do you think was soothing the others, despite my horrid experience? Me. When people feel safe, the tears start pouring. Big hug coming your way!